We all have a spark of divinity inside us, so we each have an innate need to love and to be loved. However, since we are born into an imperfect world, we all have been disappointed by those we relied on for love. This lack of love creates a painful emotional vacuum that sucks us down. Much of our life effort, and most of our destructive behavior, results from our subconscious quest to fill our emotional black holes. Some individuals try to escape the emptiness that haunts them through drugs and alcohol while others of us go to an extreme in stuffing their life with good and even necessary things such as food, work and sex. Discover how to escape this destructive force that pulls you down.